Online Psychotherapy, Coaching, EMDR & Supervision
Dr Lucy Chantrey
Parent Consultation for Families of Neurodivergent Children
Psychotherapy • EMDR • Coaching
Supervision
Training & Workshops
My Work With Parents and Families
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Supporting parents and carers of neurodivergent children and young people has become the focus of my work over many years as a psychotherapist. Whilst much of the focus is rightly on supporting neurodivergent children, I have become increasingly aware that parents are often left carrying an enormous emotional burden with very little support of their own.
I am a BACP Accredited, trauma informed EMDR and Integrative Psychotherapist, and an AC Accredited Foundation Coach, with over 16 years of clinical experience in counselling and psychotherapy.
Throughout my career, I have seen first hand the emotional impact that raising a neurodivergent child can have on parents and carers, particularly when they are navigating assessment and diagnosis, advocating for their child within education and healthcare, supporting a child who is struggling to attend school, or trying to understand and support a child with a PDA profile. The parents I work with have often spent years putting their child's needs first. By the time they reach therapy, many are emotionally exhausted and struggling with the effects of chronic stress, trauma or burnout. Parents also often tell me they feel guilty about focusing on themselves. In reality, looking after your own wellbeing is an important part of being able to support your child and your family.
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I offer a warm, non judgemental therapeutic space where parents can talk openly about their experiences without feeling judged or needing to explain themselves. Whether you are seeking support before, during or after your child's diagnosis, I work alongside you to understand your experiences, make sense of what you and your family have been through and help you find a way forward. Every family's experience is different, and my approach is always tailored to your individual needs.
I have a particular interest in parent trauma and burnout and have extensive experience in supporting parents of children with a PDA profile. I understand how difficult it can be when conventional parenting advice does not fit your child. I work alongside parents to develop a deeper understanding of their child's needs, whilst also recognising the impact that living with these challenges can have on the whole family and on parents themselves.
I am also interested in the ways that experiences can be passed between generations within families. For some parents, understanding their child's neurodivergence can lead to a new understanding of their own experiences, including difficulties they may have experienced growing up or within their own relationships with their parents. For some, this can raise questions about whether they may also be neurodivergent themselves. These experiences can bring up old feelings, patterns and wounds that may have been carried for many years. I work with parents to gently explore these experiences and understand how they may be influencing them in the present, without losing sight of the needs of the whole family.
I have worked therapeutically within the NHS, state, voluntary and private sectors with neurodivergent children, young people and their families. This breadth of experience has given me a strong understanding of the challenges families face, both within services and in everyday life, and the importance of supporting the whole family rather than focusing solely on the child.
Alongside my clinical work, I also provide bespoke training and consultancy to individuals, charities, businesses and educational settings.
My academic interests have always reflected my clinical work. Both my Master's and Doctoral research explored the lived experiences of parents of autistic girls, deepening my understanding of the unique experiences of these families and reinforcing my commitment to ensuring parents feel heard, understood and supported.
I am recognised as a preferred provider with the following private health insurers
Professional Qualifications
- Professional Doctorate (DProf) Psychological Trauma (University of Chester)
- Advanced Certificate in Clinical Supervision
- MA Counselling Children and Young People - distinction (Glyndwr University)
- PG Cert Clinical Counselling (University of Chester)
- EMDR Therapist (EMDR Europe)
- Accredited Foundation Coach (Association for Coaching)
- Certificate Coaching for Growth Masterclass
- Certified Counsellor Online and Telephone Counselling (ACTO)
Individual Psychotherapy
Many of the parents and carers of neurodivergent children and young people I work with have spent so long focusing on everyone else's needs that they have lost sight of their own.
Therapeutic Coaching
Therapeutic coaching combines the reflective space of coaching with the depth of understanding that comes from my many years of experience as a psychotherapist. It is a collaborative, future-focused approach that supports you to explore where you are now, where you would like to be and what might help you get there.
EMDR Therapy
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is an evidence-based therapy that helps the brain process distressing or traumatic experiences, so they no longer carry the same emotional intensity or continue to affect your life in the present.
Parent & Carer Consultation
Parent and carer consultation offers a supportive, collaborative space to explore the challenges you are facing whilst developing a deeper understanding of your child's individual needs.
Consultancy and Training for Schools
Alongside my clinical work with parents and carers, I provide training and consultancy for schools and educational settings, supporting staff to develop a deeper understanding of neurodivergence and the experiences of the children, young people and families they work with.
CONTACT ME
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how counselling works, or to arrange an initial assessment appointment. This enables us to discuss the reasons you are thinking of coming to counselling, whether it could be helpful for you and whether I am the right therapist to help.
You can also text or whatsapp me on 07481 727663. I am happy to discuss any queries or questions you may have prior to arranging an initial appointment.
All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.
Fees
- Psychotherapy (online only): £75 per full hour. I offer an initial 20 minute session free of charge to establish whether my service is right for you. Private health insurance £85 per hour to cover administration costs.
- Coaching (online only): £40 per half hour, £80 per hour.
- EMDR (online only): £80 per full hour
- Report writing: from £150
- Training-online or f2f: £250 up to 3 hours (half day) or £500 full day (I also charge travel if delivered in person)
- Consultancy: Depends on requirements but as a rough guide £80 per hour
- Supervision: £75 for 60 mins and £110 for 90 mins
I accept most private health insurance
Availability & Cancellation
- Psychotherapy – I do have some limited availability, so please do get in touch we can arrange an initial introductory meeting.
- I currently have no spaces for EMDR until October 2026.
- Training – currently full, although please do get in touch so we can discuss your requirements
- Consultancy – please do get in touch so we can discuss your requirements
You are welcome to cancel or rearrange your session, but I would ask that you give 2 working days notice. Sessions that are cancelled without 2 working days notice are charged at the full session rate.